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How does one succeed in life?

Last Updated: 16.06.2025 16:00

How does one succeed in life?

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

I'm a 28-year-old guy who has never been in a relationship, nor can I seem to find someone who wants to be in one with me. Why do I feel like a freak?

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

How do I know if I am a bitch? I try to be a nice person but people often jokingly call me a bitch. My family calls me a bitch sometimes too.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Does not procrastinate.

What made Sally Field a standout choice for "Smokey and the Bandit" despite her reputation as a serious actress after "Sybil"?

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Do not set goals—set systems.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

I’ve often wondered why fans aren’t deployed on GBBO during warm weather? I’ve seen too many desserts melt (and bakers too…). (I live in Pompano Beach and we try to use fans in lieu of AC as much as possible).

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

My blog is new. I need 10 article posts for my blog. How much should I pay for it?

Ask yourself:

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Why do Brits drive a lot more dangerously compared to Americans? Is there just no courtesy when driving in the UK?

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Why do men love boobs (irrespective of big or small)?

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Hangs out with loser friends.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

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That's it for today.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

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“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

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Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

What is the recommended approach for creating a film or TV script? Should the script be written first or should the story be developed first? Why?

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Procrastinates a lot.

What I need from you?

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Living to your full potential is a goal.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Making more friends is a goal.